Arrive by 6:00 pm
The lion dance greets every guest at the gate at 6:15. Come early for tea, tangerines and a family photo under the lanterns.
A Lunar New Year feast with lanterns, red envelopes and a lion dance at the door. Come hungry, come in red, come home.
Reunion dinner is the most important meal of the year: everyone comes home, everyone eats too much, nobody leaves empty-handed.
The lion dance greets every guest at the gate at 6:15. Come early for tea, tangerines and a family photo under the lanterns.
Red keeps bad luck away. Gold and jade are welcome too. Please skip all-black and all-white, which are for mourning.
Fruit, tea or sweets, always two of everything. No clocks, no pears, no sharp gifts. Red envelopes for the little ones, please.
Find your zodiac animal and tap to turn the card. Born in 2027? You are a Goat; Grandma Mei is reading those at the table.
Dinner is a marathon. Pace yourself, leave room for noodles, and save your energy for the fireworks.
The lion eats a lettuce, spits out the leaves and blesses the house. Let the little ones feed it.
Grandpa Wen stands, glass up, and we lift raw-fish salad high with chopsticks: the higher you toss, the better the year.
Round tables, lazy Susans, endless tea. Dishes arrive in order of luck.
Married guests give, unmarried guests receive. Open yours later, never at the table.
Two tables, one grudge. Beginners seated next to Aunt Rose, who will explain everything twice.
Safe, licensed, and loud enough to scare away the Nian beast. Bring earmuffs for toddlers.



A few small rules keep the luck flowing in the right direction.
Fresh bills, never torn or folded. Even amounts only; avoid anything with a 4.
Offer with both hands and a warm blessing: gong xi fa cai, or simply happy new year.
Say thank you and a blessing back. Keep it closed until you are alone.
Unmarried guests, children and our favourite students receive. Pass it on later.
Choose one of three. Inside is this year's blessing for you (the money is imaginary, the wishes are real).
Red is the colour of luck, fire and good company. Gold and jade green are welcome, and bright florals will blend right in with the blossoms.
Heirloom jewellery and new shoes are a lovely touch: new year, new steps.


Tell us how many are coming and what Grandma Mei should leave out of the pot.
Seating for 36 across four round tables. Eight is lucky; we try to seat everyone in eights.
Of course. Just add them to your headcount in the RSVP. A reunion dinner is better with strays.
Yes. Tell us in the form and Grandma Mei makes a vegetarian version of the dumplings and noodles. Menu cards on the tables list the common allergens.
Very. There is a kids' table, a quiet room upstairs, and every child gets a red envelope from the hosts.
Whatever feels warm and comfortable, in an even amount and never a 4. Gifts for the hosts are not expected; your company is the gift.
Street parking on Lantern Road is free after 5 pm, and the temple lot behind the house has 20 spaces. Please carpool; the fireworks traffic is real.
Rain is lucky. The lion dance moves into the courtyard and the fireworks slide to 10:30 pm or the following night if it is stormy. We will text everyone by 4 pm.
Thank you for travelling home with us. We hope the year ahead brings you more luck, more family, and at least one more helping of noodles.
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